But one of the worst things you can do when confronted with someone whose been abused, or is being abused, is to say some manner of “that’s not been my experience”

The last thing I need on my timeline is someone vaguely posting about how their social media experience has been flawless and mostly without hate or abuse or pile ons or what-have-you

Do you know why you’ve never had that happen? Because you don’t challenge anything, and your views are “safe”

I had someone preaching to me privately earlier about submitting evidence of defamation to NL authorities, and this being bad and what-not, but

If you haven’t been in my shoes, you don’t understand, and you don’t get it

I would semi-appreciate it if the people who are talking about me, or the things that have happened to me in the past 2 weeks, would also actually tag me into those discussions

Feel like I’m watching a ton of discourse that’s spawned directly because of an asshat who thought he could just silence trans women on a whim, from the outside

I’m getting the impression that we have splashdown

I feel like since every company started vibe coding their websites that “remember this PC” doesn’t work anymore and I’m just constantly having to whip out my phone to log back into a website after an hour being idle

steadily returning to sweltering hot and I am not ready

choking heat is the worst thing in the universe

spending my entire grocery budget on ‘artisanal’ crackers that taste like a dusty attic